Sales managers across the country are frustrated. They blame their team for lack of drive, poor follow-up, and missed opportunities. However, that frustration is often misplaced. Because in many cases, the problem isn’t the people. The problem is the leader sitting at the head of the table.
Before calling out the team, sales leaders must call out themselves. Is there clarity? Is there structure? Is there real coaching happening? When those elements are missing, sales performance drops—no matter how talented the team may be. Therefore, what looks like a sales issue is actually a leadership one.
Table of Contents
- Leadership Gaps Breed Behavior Challenges
- Too Many Managers Are Avoiding Real Coaching
- Coaching Means Clear Standards and Daily Feedback
- The Forrest Way: Coach the Human, Not Just the Outcome
- Being Liked Should Never Be the Goal
- Every Leader Must Decide What Culture They’re Creating
- Sales Results Are Built in the Trenches
- Coaching Without Accountability Doesn’t Work
- Declare Your Identity as a Leader
- Freedom Only Comes Through Better Leadership
Leadership Gaps Breed Behavior Challenges
Sales behavior is learned. And it’s modeled—daily. Salespeople mirror what they see from their leaders. If the leader avoids direct conversations, so will the team. If the leader doesn’t coach regularly, the team doesn’t grow. If the leader tolerates mediocrity, the team will produce just enough to get by.
Poor sales performance often comes from habits that were never corrected. Many times, the team isn’t lazy—they’re simply unclear. They’re operating without consistent feedback or clear standards. Eventually, that confusion leads to complacency. Not because they don’t care, but because no one has shown them a better way.
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Too Many Managers Are Avoiding Real Coaching
There’s a difference between managing and coaching. Yet too many leaders are stuck managing tasks instead of coaching people. They rely on CRMs, dashboards, and reports. They track activity, but rarely challenge belief. They hold meetings, but avoid the tough questions that would reveal what’s really going on.
Even worse, many managers confuse communication with coaching. Telling a sales rep to “get more appointments” is not coaching. Coaching means breaking down why they’re not booking appointments, identifying the root issue, and practicing a new behavior. That takes effort. But it’s the only path to real change.
Coaching Means Clear Standards and Daily Feedback
Sales professionals want to succeed. However, success requires direction. A manager who fails to define excellence invites chaos. Without structure, people default to comfort. They repeat familiar routines—even when those routines fail to produce results. And then the leader wonders why performance stays flat.
Top leaders remove the guesswork. They create standards that are specific, measurable, and enforced. They coach those standards daily through huddles, one-on-ones, and call reviews. Most importantly, they follow through. Because without follow-through, expectations become suggestions. And suggestions never drive consistent results.
The Forrest Way: Coach the Human, Not Just the Outcome
Jason and Mary Forrest don’t train sales leaders to maintain. They train them to grow people. Their approach is built around the belief that salespeople are not just performers—they are thinkers, feelers, and learners. To shift behavior, leaders must first shift belief. And that starts with coaching the person behind the process.
Sales leadership coaching requires more than enthusiasm. It demands precision, timing, and a plan. Great leaders understand how to coach process, presentation, and people. They don’t just review deals. They dissect patterns. They don’t wait for performance to dip. They intervene early, and they coach until the behavior sticks.
Being Liked Should Never Be the Goal
It’s tempting for leaders to avoid conflict. No one enjoys uncomfortable conversations. However, leadership isn’t about comfort—it’s about change. The role of a coach is to stretch people. That can’t happen if the coach is afraid of tension. Growth only happens through pressure, repetition, and accountability.
Top sales performers rarely remember the nicest manager. They remember the one who challenged them. The one who pushed them to be better. The one who never let them settle. So while kindness matters, clarity matters more. Coaching with truth and consistency builds lasting respect, not resentment.
Every Leader Must Decide What Culture They’re Creating
Culture is not defined by mission statements or motivational posters. It is created by repetition and reinforcement. What is tolerated becomes accepted. What is accepted becomes standard. If a leader looks away when someone cuts corners, they’ve silently approved it. That’s how culture challenges form.
Strong leaders take control of their culture by taking control of their coaching. They correct low standards in real time. They recognize great effort out loud. They make sure the team knows what success looks like—and what happens when it’s not reached. Over time, that clarity creates confidence.
Sales Results Are Built in the Trenches
It’s not enough to have goals. Leaders must help their team reverse-engineer the path to those goals. That means looking at every stage of the sales process. Where do deals get stuck? What objections go unanswered? What part of the process causes hesitation? Then, coach directly into those issues.
This requires tactical coaching. Leaders must observe calls, listen to presentations, and role-play conversations. They must give feedback that is timely, specific, and repeated. Eventually, the team begins to anticipate what good looks like. They don’t just learn it—they own it. And that ownership drives results.
Coaching Without Accountability Doesn’t Work
Some managers talk about growth, but never enforce it. They suggest new behaviors, but don’t check if they’re applied. That sends the wrong message. It tells the team that performance is optional. Without real accountability, progress is slow—and often, nonexistent.
Effective leaders follow through. If a rep agrees to change a behavior, the leader checks in. If the behavior doesn’t change, the leader coaches again—or makes a harder call. That’s not pressure. That’s structure. And structure is what creates professional growth.
Declare Your Identity as a Leader
If the goal is to shift results, leaders must first shift their identity. That means deciding who they are—and how they lead. Are they someone who corrects when it’s hard? Do they show up every day with consistency? Do they coach the uncomfortable? These questions matter more than any KPI.
A strong declaration brings alignment. When the team knows what to expect, they perform with more confidence. The coach becomes a source of truth. But that only works when the declaration is real. Say what you stand for. Then, back it up with action every single day.
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Freedom Only Comes Through Better Leadership
Every sales team wants more success. Every builder wants better margins. But those outcomes don’t happen by accident. They happen through structure, belief, and relentless coaching. When leadership gets serious, the team gets serious. When leadership commits, results change.
Freedom from poor performance does not come from better leads or new incentives. It comes from leadership that is clear, consistent, and courageous. Teams do not rise on their own. They rise when someone leads them to believe they can.
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